Look at me, perhaps pulling off 2 blogs within a week of each other. Wow. Go, Paddy, Go. Note, this blog has some graphic language, so if you are going to be offended, please skip it :) I had an entirely different post planned for follow-up to my mental health one, but I am going with this one instead. Why, you might ask? Well, because I picked up my mail and got a parcel that gave me an idea to write about. So, here it is. Every year, if I get a bonus at work, I try to carve out a little something that is just for me. It doesn't pay the bills, it doesn't have a practical (or generally not) reason for it, it's just something I want or fills me up in some way. I had planned to buy myself a new chair as I spend a lot of time in front of my fire reading in my arm chair and the old one was falling apart, but my lovely hubby bought me one for Christmas, so that was off the table. (Lest anyone think we gift too extravagant, something of that size is not the norm, more of a once ...